In this special episode, I’m joined by Dr. Gordon Neufeld a Canadian clinical psychologist, founder of the Neufeld Institute, and one of the most influential contemporary voices in understanding child development. With over 40 years of experience working with parents, educators, and professionals, Dr. Neufeld is the co-author of “Hold On to Your Kids” (written together with Dr. Gabor Maté), a landmark book in the field of parent-child relationships.
Dr. Neufeld founded the institute that bears his name, offering profound insights into how children grow, learn, and flourish when their attachment needs are met. His approach emphasizes connection, not correction.
Dr. Neufeld visited Romania last year, where he took the stage at ParentED Fest, and this conversation was born from the energy of that encounter.
The episode explores the importance of relationship, emotional safety, and attachment as the foundation of healthy development.
We talk about:
What attachment is and why it matters more than any parenting strategy
How to repair the relationship with your child when the connection has been disrupted
Why parents need to matter more than peers
How to create an emotionally safe environment where children can truly grow
Dr. Neufeld is known for his ability to make sense of complex issues and to open real doors to change and this conversation is no exception.